Tuesday, February 2, 2021
Gary, this by far is the most difficult thing I’ve had to do without you. This would have been our 32nd year together on our adventure; definitely a cross between “Mr. Toad’s Wild Ride” and an “E Ticket”. Lots of ups and downs, tears and laughter but we always made our way through the challenges and grew stronger as individuals and together for all of it. You were my, “social butterfly”, my partner in discovering new and unique places, continuously pushing the limits, making me laugh and constantly thanking me for being your wife.
I know there were so many things you still wanted to accomplish personally and as a couple. Just a few weeks ago you asked me if people would remember you and what would they remember for? Well Gary, you accomplished so much more than you ever realized. Countless people have contacted me to let me know the impact you made on their lives and what you did for them. No one was a stranger with you, you made friends all over the country, making sure everyone was comfortable, making sure they had something to eat or drink, you shared your knowledge, kindness, generosity, willingness to volunteer and help out, laughter, sense of humor, and above all, the love you had for your family, friends and most of all, being a grandpa (PaPa Gary). All of us grieve for you and feel the enormous loss without you.
Gary, thank you for giving me the opportunity to share this journey with you. I’ll be waiting to meet up with you again, give you a hug, and start our next adventure.
